Kudos to you on finding your own way out of a horrific situation. Often times we don't know what feats of strength and fortitude we are capable of until we are forced into a fight or flight situation. In this case, both worked well for you. Having never experienced anything like your story, I can do nothing but sympathize. However, you have my admiration and respect for what you've done for you and your children.

Octavius

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"The Lord can make you tumble, the Lord can make you turn, the Lord can make you overflow...but the Lord can't make you burn." - Randy Newman