may peace be on all of you

i teach my child about heaven and hell and it has had no negative effect on her she is four years old now , and i v been telling her the following way
God has made mama, papa , you n ur brother
if we are good and do good deeds God grants us with the best place to live in forever and ever that is heaven , if u love your brother in the same way and share things with him , angels inform God of your good deeds and inshallah He will bless you with heaven
But if one does bad deeds , and are cruel , mean and selfish angels inform God of this too and God has made fire for them to punsih them

it is true God oves us 70 times more than our mothers ,but God does not lie and neither does he like liars , if He says He has created heaven and hell for reward and punishment then that will not change ...... but what can change till we have life is .OURSELVES ..... if we choose to do good and be persistent on that we can have heaven on this earth .... if we chose to be evil and are persistent on that then should we go scot free??????

IF law punishes a murderer with death sentence then the law which was made for the safety for humanity should be blamed as being soooooo cruel ,
what do parents teach children regarding that , when death itself is a big thing for children to understand
IS telling about the law, being cruel to children???

A concept of belief in God comes first ..... then belief as life as a test ...... then in a day of judgement .... then come heaven and hell
when one does not beieve in God he would never understand what these beliefs could do to change his attitude towards himself ,and others, and his deeds..... how it helps one to judge himself and evaluate his own deeds before being evaluated by others ..... before being evaluated by the law of the land .... before being evaluated by the law of God


This concept has had a positive effect on my child ..... that even if im not around there is a God watching her , wether i live or die , hopefully there will a constant concience in her soul reminding her that when we break His rules we harm No one but ourselves

eg if we take some bodys thing without permission ie steal ..God is watching ,we are harming ourself first before causing trouble to the other person

if we dont believe in God ..... there is no point in discussing heaven or hell because only He knows who is going where

my child is quite healthy mentally .....
interested in doing good for the sake of God
telling her about hell hasnt been abuse for her

hope this helps