Great questions David...which I don't truly have definite answers for. Maybe there are many answers and different answers for different people. From my own expereince I had to stop being affraid.

Today I step up when I see or even suspect abuse, and I talk openly about it...in hopes that others too step up to the plate. Too much is going on behind "closed doors". I think as long as we continue to look the other way...we are saying yes to the abuse that is going on in this world.

The key to bringing change about in my opinion is to hate the action...not the person. I think about it this way: If I want clean teeth...I brush them....yet I don't dwell on how "bad" those bacterias are that attack my teeth. Maybe I'll even take it further and see how I can avoid bacterias in mouth....maybe buiding a healthy system where all works together for the good of the whole : )

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