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My son has the exact same fear and he's certainly not a racist, so I don't think it's necessarily intrinsic.
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i don't think clowns are regarded as a race, so your wife isn't a racist.
i think clowns represent and exaggerate, anamolies and strangeness found in humankind. They also act with violence toward each other ,and strange, inexplicable things happen to them in thier performances. It's all a sham but does every child that's going to be an adult know that? |
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Someone close to me has a phobia about dolls. That doesn't spill over to anything else. Towards humans of any age or colour or whatever label, you couldn't find a more caring person. Maybe the clown problem is a reaction to fake humans?
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I don't think she is a racist. I think she is one of the most caring people I have ever met. I think she is highly sensitive and this sensitivity has been categorized as fear.
It's interesting that she is so interested in cartoons and superheros. I agree with Luguber in that it is probably the "mask" that bothers her. A cartoon is what it is, but a clown or heavily made up person is a "cover up". Is it a reminder of something she is covering up?
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I agree with everyone else, mrscardero is definately not a racist. Prejudice may come from fear, but just because you fear something does not mean that you are prejudiced against it.
I fear spiders. If they are in my house, I will kill them (actually I have someone else do it since my fear is rather debiliating). But out in nature, I just stear clear of them. Just because I fear them I don't think I am prejudiced against them, I accept and understand that they feed on other insects and control that population, but it doesn't change my fear of them I just don't see your wife being mean to clowns, or telling others to boycott clowns because she fears them. I think that logically she understands that they are meant to entertain us, but for whatever reason they instigate the fear response in her. Bottom line, we all fear something, but that doesn't mean we are mean or cruel to that thing, whatever it may be.
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That's a very good point, imo. People who are the most sensitive and caring tend also to be the ones most bothered by what they may see or hear that they may feel are inappropriate. Sometimes that may dove-tail this with being a perfectionist whereas everything must fall within certain parameters. My wife is definitely one of those "perfectionists", and sometimes she would drive my kids and I bonkers because everything had to be just perfect or else... That, of course, is my version of the story. ![]()
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When I was a wee boy I had an unreasoning fear of people dressed up as the Easter Bunny... My Mom was really unhappy with me that I couldn't warm up to the Bunny I recall...
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