I agree it may be a predisposed choice before we are born..possibly..but not after...you are either born that way or something in your early months and years have formed you to be that way..I think both occur...but either way it doesn't matter and it is not something we consciously choose in this life...there should be no need to try and change if it were even possible....and it is not a sin nor is it anything to lovingly forgive as a christian or otherwise...it is not wrong..it is simply a different orientation that is to be accepted.....

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I think there are many different factors involved why some prefer same sex over opposite sex or the other way around. I would however like to think it is out of love. I teach my kids that love can fall either way and not to be closed minded (bias) but to let the dice fall on love.

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Hi Viv

No I am not saying being gay is a sin

There is no sin

I don't think anybody is born gay. I've never seen a gay baby. I've never seen a straight one either. I don't think we even have a sexuality at that age. I started liking girls at about five and I remember choosing to be straight. I had the choice to either like girls or like girls. So, I chose girls. Since I was attracted to five year olds when I was five, does that mean I chose to be a five year old pedophile? If so then thank God I grew out of it before I got caught!

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